Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Marginalized

Marginalized 
When time goes by and  suddenly you realize that you have been marginalized by all those around you and you have been the giver and never took anything all you life ,,, you feel victimized and little by little start thinking = WHY ??? 
The answer comes to you clearly ,,,simply and without any effort ,,,,YOU have made them treat you like this because you never give your own self that chance to have your own interests and needs ,,, you have always been attached to them all and you never have detached yourself ,,, this  angelic attitude could be practiced only among those who appreciate others' good will and favor ; however we are all human and most of us are selfish ,,,we love to have ,,to take ,, to be treated well ,,to be takers ,,NOT givers ,, this is called selfishness and self- loved or shall I call it the me object wherein each person prefers to have it all and to take everything he can and will rather than give ,,, once one used to such a treatment ,, attitude and habit ,,it becomes part of his/her own character and reality ,,,

We go back to those who live all their life marginalized  by all those around them ,,, if you look through their characters - you find sweet , loving, gentle , kind , generous and very good people with gold hearts and chaste souls , with caring temperament and  caring angelic nature ,,, such people are always having the worst deal from their nearest , closest and dearest because the others take it for granted they it is their duty to serve them and give them everything but they are not expected to give back ,,, therefore good people become marginalized and almost forgotten ,,, the question here is :

Is this fair ???
Surely not ....
But who will be aware of this unfair treatment ,,,,ONLY those who are marginalized will be suffering and paying from their own feelings ,,,In this world there are a rare number of people who are marginalized and those are hidden in the societies ,,,no one can understand why such good people who sacrifice their happiness  for others without any return ,,, why do they keep this attitude ,,, the answer is = once one start this , it will not be finished because it is only a matter of goodness and giving rather than an attitude to be adopted ...
Mostly women suffer from marginalization ,,,wives are almost the large number among those ,,,daughters as well... it seems that females are most of those who suffer from marginalization  especially in the east ,,,does this mean that women are marginalized in these countries???
It all depends on the attitudes of the other members of the families ,,, women are sometimes marginalized at work as well ,, however - this is up to the administration and management of the offices and it also depends on the women themselves - whether they allow this attitude or not ,,, such treatment is not only in the east ,, it applies to the west as well ,,,

Women should stand up and fight ,,, get their own rights and never let anything make  them be treated as a second hand citizens nor be marginalized ,,,,otherwise no one else will give them what they deserve or are worth for ...
 

THE TRUTH HURTS

The Truth Hurts ....

Why does the truth hurt ???? Why do people hate any one who says the truth ??? I have been thinking about this simple short question and bare truth for quite a time and yet I find all my answers inadequate .... 

Few months ago , all my closest ,,,nearest and dearest were so worried about my possessions and they are not much ,,, though I am not the eldest still without any warnings or signs of illnesses ,,, nor of any cause to my near death ,,, they were all gathering ,,discussing and negotiating how will my possessions be distributed after my death,,,,, one sister kept phoning me telling me to donate or register my piece of land as an endowment to anyone ,,,,then her son came to me telling the same thing ,,they were all urging me to write all I have in another name ,,, who should I write it for ,,,, the whole situation gives me terrible pain and bitterness ,,,, I keep thinking why.... I have never interfered in their private or personal affairs ,,,why should they expect my death and plan to distribute my own possessions which I made by my own effort and hard work ,while I am still living ,,,I have no house of my own ,,I living in a rented flat ,,I have no work,,, I am tired and I need help  rather than to give away everything or at least the last and only thing that I have ,,,, I did not inherit a penny of  what I  own ,,,  they all have their own houses and they are living well with pensions or work ,,,with a lot of children to support and help ,,,surrounded by their own family members unlike me who live alone , displaced and away from any one ,,,, 
The bare fact says that all are waiting for my death ,,, and here am I ,,, now ,,, ill and all alone ,,, having been operated twice in a week and what is to come is still unsure ,,,
Being a strong believer in the Almighty gives me more power and more patience to tolerate this sad bitterness and strange attitude of all those whom I have been the most loving , caring  , generous and kind ,,, 
Yet ,  day by day I realize how can people be so greedy and so selfish as to wish death for their closest person just to get money ,,, what an ugly feeling ...what an ugly inhuman attitude ,,, what a strange life ,,,really very saddening ,,,

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