Sunday, November 04, 2012

When Closest - Nearest & Dearest Person Humiliates YOU !!!!

When Closest - Nearest & Dearest Person Humiliates YOU !!

Life is so unfair ,,,,when you trust someone so as to give him/her you own life ,,,your everything = love , trust , faith, loyalty, soul & heart ,,,thinking that he/she is the one ...and only one -whom you want to share life with all its sweetness & bitterness ,,, with happiness & sadness...with health & illness. With each moment ,,each pulse of your heart ,,, each breath that makes you alive ,,, you sacrifice everything for that one and only person ,,, you spend years working hard,,, very hard to please them ,,, to provide everything for them ,,,,you love them unconditionally ,,,,you prefer them to your own self ,,,


Silently you do everything in order to make them happy ,,, you forgive their mistakes ,,,you accept their faults ,,,you just do everything to make them happy ,,,you save them from big problems ,,,words are not enough to express the great things you do to make their life easy ,,, happy and almost complete ,,,doing so through out decades thinking that they deserve your love and sacrifices ,,,You keep cherishing them despite all the bad things that they do to you – finding excuses to justify their wrong doings  and forgiving their bad acts ,,,thinking that one day they will come to their senses ,,,all this because you love them ,,,,

In return , by years ,, they start changing attitude ,,, manners ,, and start  neglecting  you ,,,betraying you ,,,cheating on you ,,,finally you realize that  they no more love you nor even respect you ,,, you were only a ladder to climb up on your back to reach their goal ,,,,you ask and request for your freedom ,,, they refuse claiming that they love you ,,,they keep humiliating you by ignoring  and cold feeling ,,,gradually you find out that they have already chosen another person in their life ,, and that you are no more than  a piece of furniture in the house  ,,

You ask for your freedom again and again  ,,, they refuse saying that  they love you and can not leave you ,,,, but their conduct shows otherwise ,, you become like a bone in the throat for them ,,,what to do ,,, you travel to take a break ,,, you want to come back ,,, you find everything has disappeared ,,,no furniture ,,, nothing ,,, where to go ,,, you stay away hoping that the distance will make them long for you  and that love , fidelity ,,, loyalty ,,,may be humanity will make them realize   how important you are in their life ,,,but you get to know that they only are happy now because you are away from them ,,,far away to see you ,,, they are enjoying the company of their new love ,,, their new companion ,,,as for you ,,,you have been old papers of an old deserted unwanted book which they do not want to have a look at ,,,nor to see,,,,,you are out of date ,,,,you do not exist


Out of commitment , fidelity , love , religious principles ,,,you contact them ,,call them ,,, write to them ,,,yet NO ANSWER ,,,,RETURN TO SENDER ,,,NO REPLY ,,,as if NO ADDRESS ,,

So , now what to do ,,,you have been used and abused  for decades ,,,thinking it was love ,,, BUT it was NOT ,,, years of humiliations ,,, and a deep profound wound that will never be healed is engraved  inside your heart so you are awakened to realize that the great love of your  feeling is no more the same ,,,you have tried every possible way to gain their love –no way  ,,, in this case you will surely be a fool to believe that they want you any more in their life …it is a  crystal clear message for you ,,,you should regain your dignity and self respect ,,,self esteem ,,,pride ,,,especially that you have  been so good to be true to such people who have NEVER appreciate your pure great love ,,,


No regret if you leave them especially that they deserted and abandoned you when you were having the most difficult times in all your life ,,,you wanted them there for you to comfort you ,,,to ease the pain and the hard time ,,, to support you morally ,,, to take your hand to the shore of serenity and peace of mind ,,, they let you down years and years ,, they deleted you completely from LIFE and from their own life ,,,


Would you then think that you have made a mistake by leaving them ???

No , not at all ,,,they are no more in your life ,,, they have chosen to leave you  years before you left them ,,, you tried and tried ,,, you requested ,, you begged ,,in all languages of soul and heart ,,, not only the articulated verbal language ,,, you touched their hearts ,, souls and minds ,,, yet  NO RESPONSE ,,,suddenly YOU became a malignant cancer from  which they just RUN AWAY to avoid ,,,,you became AN INFECTIOUS DISEASE from which they run in order not to catch ,,,

What a life ,,, what a life ,,,what a life ……


For all those who love deeply ,,, passionately and without return I say

BEWARE ,,,you might be mistaken

BE  CAREFUL because you might live decades with someone thinking he/she loves you …then one day you will find out and  realize it was your own ILLUSION was only your own imagination

NEVER TRUST any one who tells you that he/she loves you ..



Life is so strange

People are SO  CRUEL






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