Thursday, July 14, 2011

HUMAN RELATIONS NOWADAYS

HUMAN RELATIONS NOWADAYS 

Human relations are the most sacred relations ever since  our forefather Adam was created by  the Almighty Allah ,,,family relations parenthood ,,,brotherhood ,,sisterhood,, spouses bonds  ,,,relatives ,,sons ,,,daughters , all these blood and flesh relations are supposed to be the strongest  and most sacred ever because they represent  the closest and nearest relations and that is shown by true love , affection , help ,,communication ,,,,
This was only seen in the PAST ,,,,NOWADAYS , ALAS ,,,,,No one seems to pay any attention to these relations ,,,
MATERIAL is governing the whole world ,,,not only politically but PERSONALLY as well  ,,,,
I know a very close friend whose siblings , spouse and all relatives were around her for years ,,because she was like a an open account bank for  all of them ,,, she spent half her life spending and giving ,,,loving and caring ,,years passed by = she was working like a non- stop machine days and nights ,,,she never thought of buying a house for herself  or enjoy life by travelling or buying expensive jewelries ,,a car or anything that might help her when she gets old ,,,she LOVES all her family members without any difference ,,,she kept giving without limits to all ,,,,,, the RESULT : NO ONE ever stayed with her ,,,her husband left her ,,,her siblings left her ,,,and suddenly she found herself  all alone ,,,no one asked about her no one visited her ,,,she became as a contagious disease ,,,,she did not change ,,,her love and affection is still the same  till this moment BUT she does not have a penny to give any more ,,,she can hardly make ends meet ,,,,,,she kept asking about them ,,,yet no one bothered to pick up the phone one day to say hello .. how are you ,,,???.
She got the message BUT it was TOO LATE ,,,because she has lived for others who never care for her but for what she has!!!,,once her money ,,,position ,,power ,, asset ,,,gone ,,,she = to them- did not exist any more ... ...
WHAT CRUELTY ????
WHAT SELFISHNESS???
WHERE IS  HUMANITY ??? 
WHAT kind of people are they???
WHAT kind of FALSE RELATIONS are these???
I WONDER ....
NOW  living alone in a foreign country ,,,broke ,,unemployed ,,,unable even to cope ,,,,no one knows how she lives ... how she spends her time ,,,, no one bother to ask ,,because she CAN NOT GIVE ANY MORE !!!
SHE MAY DIE ALONE  and rot in her flat without any single person knowing of it ,,,BECAUSE her family have abandoned her years ago ,,,sometimes she says =
WHAT HAVE I DONE TO DESERVE THIS???
Every day passes ,makes her think deeper about the cruelty of her family ,,,the nearest and dearest ,,,,
BEING a strong believer in the ALMIGHTY ALLAH has given her more and more strength and power ,,,resistance and faith that HE ONLY is HER SAVIOUR ,,,HER CREATOR who has mercy & blessings ,,,By HIS BLISS & BLESSINGS she gets her strength and hope to pass her long long  lonely days with patience and spiritual strength to overcome this dreary misery of desertion and abandonment ,,,,after doing everything for all of them ,,,not a single one of them was deprived of her love , affection ,,, generosity ,,giving and even she preferred them all forgetting her own self ,,,,,
WHAT A STORY ,,,You might think this is FICTION ,,,no it is a  very TRUE REAL STORY of a living woman who still BELIEVES in LOVE AND FAMILY relation DESPITE ALL THIS ,,,because she keeps forgiving and finding excuses for them all 
BUT THE REALITY IS THEY ARE ALL PROFITEERING and SELFISH UNKIND WORTHLESS of her LOVE & AFFECTION ,,,
MAY WE ALL BE AWAKENED TO OUR MISTAKES AND SHORTCOMINGS 
MAY WE ALL BE KIND & LOVING ;CARING & GOOD TO OTHERS EVEN IF THEY ARE NOT OUR FAMILIES 
MAY WE BE WORTH OF BEING GIVEN THE NAME OF HUMAN BEINGS 
MAY LOVE & KINDNESS FILL ALL THE HEARTS OF PEOPLE ALL OVER THE WHOLE WORLD     
PRAYERS & LOVE TO ALL 


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